Getting back to it

I have lost sight of things in 14 years of marriage. I have lost sight of the partner that I have and somehow have forgotten how much she is here as a help mate. God said it's not good for man to be alone so I will make him someone to help him. Then why do I try and do things alone. I'm not sure. I know I'm supposed to cover her and keep her safe but she can do some of the same things for me if I will let her. That's what I have to start doing, letting her help me. I don't know what is going to happen but I do know that I want her to be a big part of it. As I look at Zoey watching caillo J asleep in bed I remember that even in this ordeal I am blessed.